Kate added, "Will's right. And also the fact that I've been there. I know what it's like to not have control over what's being done to you. It hasn't been as long as you've experienced but it's happened to me too. You need to realize it was nothing to do with you. You can't control what had happened, but you can control how you're dealing with it."

She then said, "You are giving power to something. You're giving power to your past. Letting it control you. Don't you see it?"